Testimonies of my doula support
Rut, from Sweden
"My expectations were more than met, they were exceeded!The personal connection, the genuine care and calm. I felt so seen, heard and supported throughout pregnancy, birth and postpartum. I had a guiding light in a time where a lot was unknown!
Mayra you were an absolute angel throughout our time together! But most importantly during the birth, I cannot imagine my labor experience without you. Everything from the physical support to the mental as well as translation in contact with the medical professionals, it truly was a blessing to have you."
Keiarna, from Australia
"Mayra, you were an absolute treasure in supporting our birth of our third son. You have calm, grace, intuition and compassion that helped both myself and my husband throughout our journey. I honestly would never hesitate in recommending you to anyone preparing for the birth of their next child."
Krystyna, from Poland
"Attending the Bem Nascer Journey was an incredibly thoughtful and necessary experience for me. The three days were filled with essential information that helped me feel more confident and prepared for the birth of my daughter. It was truly a meaningful and empowering journey that made a big difference in how I approached this special moment in my life.
Thank you for creating such a valuable course—it was exactly what I needed 🤗"
Susanne, from Denmark
"I found you to be very bold and action oriented which I liked. Some doulas can be too sweet and soft and I loved that you had power while holding me with love. You were completely in tuned on my needs without me having to ask you during birth."
Lurah from Brazil:
“Mayra empowered me in a way that she spoke exactly what I needed to hear at that time, you know? I felt very insecure because with pregnancy, we actually never have control over things, right? So a doula helps us to stay grounded, I think. And after everything that happened in my birth, with the baby being so premature, I felt very insecure to do anything else, even with feeding. And that’s where Mayra’s psychological support really helped me to empower myself and have the courage to try and believe in nature, in the mother-baby relationship, and in breastfeeding. And I’m very, very, very grateful to her for that. Because breastfeeding radically changed my relationship with Clara. And I always remember it. Always”.
Milou, from Holland:
“I met Mayra 4.5 years ago during my first pregnancy and she helped me navigate giving birth in Portugal as a foreigner. Her open attitude, gentle nature, flexibility, and experience as a doula made me feel comfortable with her from the beginning. I recently went to her for a massage and she created a warm and inviting atmosphere, taking my wishes into account. Despite not having many physical complaints, I felt a great sense of relief during the massage, particularly in my back, chest, and shoulders. Throughout the session, I felt relaxed and at ease, and slept well the following night”.
Janet from Scotland:
“I found having a doula, Mayra, to be most beneficial for the emotional support she provided during my pregnancy and postpartum. Mayra’s check-ins, outreach, and calming reassurance were fantastic, and her willingness to reach out to me made me feel supported. Mayra helped me navigate challenges related to breastfeeding and a tongue-tied baby by connecting me with the right consultants. I found Mayra to be caring and sensitive, and her emotional support was invaluable to me during my journey.
As someone who gave birth in a foreign country with a different language and away from family, navigating the healthcare system was a challenge for me. Mayra helped me understand the system, where to go, who to speak to, and what appointments I needed. She was always available to answer my queries and direct me in the right way. Giving birth in a foreign country required me to understand the system, the new SNS, options for birthing, public vs. private hospitals, and how to get appointments. It was all hard to navigate, but with Myra’s help, I got there in the end. I feel lucky to have a beautiful baby.
For the pregnancy follow-up appointments I went to the local state doctor, but they didn’t always have space for scans and blood tests, so we went to CUF. However, I found CUF to be sterile and more like a business, and there was a high rate of C-sections, which I didn’t want. People recommended Cascais State Hospital, which was very clean, had good experiences, and was efficient. The nurses spoke good English and were attentive. So we went to Cascais and had a successful vaginal birth. I am happy with our choice and grateful for Mayra’s Support”.
Laura from the UK:
“During my pregnancy, I had trouble getting appointments at Centro de Saude [Health centre in English] in Ericeira and ended up paying for appointments and scans at CUF [a private hospital branch]. I eventually got an appointment at the Centro de Saúde in Ericeira, which went smoothly since I speak some Portuguese.
I attended Lizana’s pregnancy yoga, which was helpful and allowed me to make friends. I gave birth at Garcia de Orta in Almada, where they respected my preferences for a natural birth and turning down the lights, but I didn’t like staying in the hospital for two nights and being away from my family. My partner could only visit for six hours a day. I also hired a doula towards the end of my pregnancy because I was worried about the language barrier during labour. However, my partner and I ended up handling everything ourselves, so I didn’t need the doula in the end. Nevertheless, I believe that doulas can be very helpful for some people.”
Jenny from Brazil / Netherlands:
“I had my second daughter here in Portugal, but my first daughter was born in the Netherlands. There, I was more familiar with the healthcare system and felt very calm and supported throughout the process, especially since they focus on natural childbirth, which aligned with my beliefs. However, with my second pregnancy in Portugal, I was less familiar with the system and felt very nervous. During my first ultrasound, the doctor made a comment that made me feel even more uncomfortable about the healthcare system here. I was worried about how I would be treated during labour and delivery and even considered having a home birth, but I wasn’t confident in that decision. That’s when I found Mayra, a doula, who was amazing. She listened to my concerns, helped me find a doctor who aligned with my beliefs, and provided me with all the necessary information. What I appreciated most about her was that she didn’t impose her own beliefs on me and was always open to understanding what I wanted. Even though I eventually found a doctor who I liked, Mayra’s support was incredibly important to me.”